Psychological effects

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robert
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Psychological effects

Postby robert » July 24th, 2017, 6:12 pm

Hi everyone,

I'm new here and I'm reading with great interest Jarod's guide, and I'm having a few questions about the psychological effects of wearing stretchers, especially in heterosexual men. I'm asking this because in the past I've had some problems with social anxiety, and porn addiction turned out to be the problem. I solved these problems, but I don't want to go down a similar path again. So here it goes.

1. Does wearing a ball stretcher have any effect on the way a heterosexual man has (nonsexual) contact with women in general? Does it make the man more shy, or more confident, or does it not have an effect? And how about sexual contact (e.g. flirting, kissing, sex)?

2. Does ball stretching affect mood in any way? E.g. does it make one feel more happy, or less anxious and more confident?

3. Does ball stretching have any influence on libido?

4. I've read that ball stretching is addictive, and makes sex more pleasurable. But how easy is it to quit? And does the feeling of sex return to normal after quitting?

Also, I've read that the author of the guide, Jarod, quit. I'm curious to know why. Does anybody know?

Thanks!
Robert

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Re: Psychological effects

Postby Theoldguy » July 25th, 2017, 6:15 am

Hi Robert
I can only pass on my personal observations
1 it certainly doesn't effect the way I view heterosexual relationships /women
2 it certainly doesn't affect any moods
3 it can affect your libido as you are more aware of your Balls and the pleasant constant tugging and can become quite focussed on them as in the need to shave them regularly
4 it is only addictive in so much as most guys have a competitive edge and want to do better
When they are stretched lower it certainly adds to the sexual experience for your partner
It is of course a sexual kink variation but a very pleasant one which harms no one else
James

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Re: Psychological effects

Postby TrumpJunior » July 25th, 2017, 11:02 am

Ball stretching...don't do it if you overthink things.

robert
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Re: Psychological effects

Postby robert » July 25th, 2017, 4:19 pm

Hi,

Thanks for the reassuring reply @Theoldguy

Yes, maybe I'm overthinking it, haha. But better be safe than sorry ...

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Re: Psychological effects

Postby ontherocks » July 25th, 2017, 6:36 pm

Hi Robert, and welcome. I'm new to this too, so don't have as much wisdom as most of the other guys. But, I concur with responses 1-3 that "theoldguy" gave above. As for number 4, I don't think it will be hard to quit whenever I want--just stop wearing the stretchers. My sex life with my wife has been fine--she's the only one I've told about the stretching. It's not something I could or would want to keep secret from her. Stretching does make me plan logistically more about where I will be, what I will be doing, what I will need to wear, and how/when to take off/put on the gear as needed. For example, sometimes gear adjustments may need to be made because of some discomfort and you gotta find a place--sometimes quickly. I've enjoyed my journey so far and definitely don't plan to do this longer than needed to reach my goal. All the best to you.

robert
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Re: Psychological effects

Postby robert » July 25th, 2017, 11:12 pm

Hi ontherocks, thanks! That's good to hear.

I'm curious, did you ask your wife if you have changed in any way since starting your new hobby?

ontherocks
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Re: Psychological effects

Postby ontherocks » July 26th, 2017, 12:15 am

Hey Robert, good question. No, I haven't thought to ask my wife if I've changed. But for me it's only been a month since I began stretching. I don't feel like I've changed and I'm sure she would tell me if I were! The hobby takes a little extra time to dress and undress the gear, but other than that, I'm attending normally to my wife, children, and family activities as well as work. If you have other personal questions for me, feel free to send them via private message and I'm happy to respond candidly. I don't know that the other guys here would really be interested. :)

ontherocks
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Re: Psychological effects

Postby ontherocks » July 26th, 2017, 6:51 pm

Robert, so last night I asked my wife what changes she's noticed in me recently. She commented on upper body muscles because I've been working out with a personal trainer
:), but I refocused her to ball stretching and she didn't think I was acting differently, but she did say she liked the feel of the weights banging against her during intercourse. That was great to hear. She hadn't said anything before and I'd wondered if there was any difference. Also, my libido seems somewhat stronger when I have weights on. It was nice talking with my wife about the short-term progress I've made as well as explaining to her why I would more frequently go to the bathroom--to adjust my gear, check the color of my sack, etc.

robert
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Re: Psychological effects

Postby robert » July 26th, 2017, 8:26 pm

Hi ontherocks, you rock, literally :)

Thanks for this amazing research :) and great to hear that you got such good and healthy feedback!

I must say that it's really helping me to get over the fear/reservations I was having.

Thanks again, and good luck.

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Re: Psychological effects

Postby Str8pumpin » July 28th, 2017, 2:14 pm

My wife thought it was a little odd at first, but now she barely notices...Unless of course she being pounded... :lol: The only thing I can say about stretching is it does make you aware of the constant tug, which can make you horny. But I have had no real negatives to the whole experience.


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