Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

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DaveSmith
Posts: 97
Joined: January 7th, 2012, 4:35 pm
Time stretching?: 20 years app
Stretching usage: WMC ® weights
Your hang: 184mm 7.5"
Stretching intensity: Varies enormously from intense stretching to periods of rest
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 6ft - 10.6 stones
Other sexual practices: I enjoy bondage play and extended 'edging' while masturbating
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Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby DaveSmith » April 20th, 2012, 4:02 pm

Hi Guys,
Do any of your friends (as opposed to sexual partners) know you ball stretch?

Ball stretching is becoming more and more mainstream but it seems to me that it is still perceived as a rather embarrassing subject and something about which most guys keep not only quiet, but completely secret. A significant number of guys even feel the need to keep their ball stretching secret from their partner causing them to ball stretch 'in the closet'. It would be great if it became a more openly accepted practice. I suspect that gay guys are able to be more open about it amongst their peers/friends, but perhaps I'm wrong? Please contribute to this topic with your own experiences and it would be helpful to state if you're 'straight', 'gay' or 'bi' - remember this forum is utterly non discriminatory - we're all Ball Stretchers and other sexual preferences are entirely incidental.

I'll start! I'm 'straight', long term married. My wife knows I ball stretch, and although I do it openly at home I'm not sure it is entirely approved of. My friends do not know I ball stretch and I guess I'd be embarrassed for it to be known as I suspect it would not be understood and I would be stigmatised.
Dave Smith
"Ball stretching is like life - the journey is more important than the destination"

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Cubnuts
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Joined: April 14th, 2012, 1:19 pm
Sexuality: Gay
Location: Missouri, USA

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby Cubnuts » April 20th, 2012, 4:41 pm

Pasted and edited a little from our previous discussion:

I'm pretty open about 90% of the fetishes and things that I do when it comes to my friends. It makes for fun conversation at the least. In regard to reception, most of my friends think I'm a big weirdo, but they aren't disgusted or anything, they just don't see the appeal. Of course, all of my friends are straight, and I think straight men are a little more protective of their "buddies" and less likely to experiment with the more unusual stuff on average. Interestingly, my best friend's girlfriend was the most curious. When I told her, she wanted to see pictures and then later even poked at the crotch of my pants to see if she could feel the rings under there, lol.

I have several gay friends online, and they can all appreciate it as a fetish, with only one of them really unreceptive to the idea, but there was some kind of past history reasoning there. Most of them like seeing pictures, especially if I've got a lot of steel stacked on. It's kinky.

Of course, everyone is sure to tell me to be careful, not wanting me to damage myself.

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Gerald Richards
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Location: United States

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby Gerald Richards » April 21st, 2012, 8:18 pm

I am straight, although I tend to stay to myself. Different ones probably suspect that I stretch and the like. It is something I do not talk about nor discuss with the people that I am around. Unless they were to do it themselves, they probably would not understand or would try to make it something that it is not. Even if someone stretched that I did know they may do it for some other reason and may not be as serious about it as I am, so I stay null.
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bobbyballsack
Posts: 185
Joined: January 9th, 2012, 7:10 pm
Time stretching?: 7 Years
Your hang: right at 4 inches
Stretching intensity: From time to time. Wear weights during sex always.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: Yes
Height and weight: 6 foot 1 270 lbs
age: 46
Other sexual practices: Ass play, ureathra play
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Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby bobbyballsack » April 22nd, 2012, 4:59 am

Married 21 years and my wife doesnt find it odd. The only people Ive talked to about it openly is all the people in my local tattoo shop...lol.
--> 1mm seems insignificant until you try to stretch a piercing or your urethra <--

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Started stretching 12/14/2009

CoastGuardJon
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Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby CoastGuardJon » April 22nd, 2012, 11:27 am

Married 29 years, started stretching 4 or 5 years ago, as my balls had atrophied, scrotum disappearing and no hang. My wife thought it really odd to start with, until I started developing a ballbag agin and my nuts stopped shrinking and actually got slightly bigger again - I'm convinced getting them away from body heat is responsible for that enlargement. They had shrunk t the size of small grapes and were absolutely hellers to pull down to apply a ring weight and would usually pull back through. I can now wear 3x 15mm WMCs 24/7/365 and occasionally more for several hours, I'm a practising nudist/naturist so was rather embarrassed of my severely shrunken assets. Last year went on holiday to a resort with nudist area and pool, the only interest in my jewellry was from a couple of young women 30ish, who both did a double-take (but didn't ask to take a closer look!) no-one else took any notice at all - but maybe that's naturists for you, you just don't gawk at each other. None of my friends know I stretch.

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Norman
Posts: 171
Joined: January 8th, 2012, 2:59 pm
Time stretching?: 2 years 3 months
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: up to 6". I've noticed them drop even more!
Stretching intensity: 15+30+15mm a lot of the time, 30mm 24/7.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 67" 154 lbs
age: 70
Location: UK

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby Norman » April 29th, 2012, 8:02 pm

OK I confess I am probably the oldest amongst you by far -- I have been happily married for 43 years. I just decided last `December to start ballstretching and I am hooked. I didn't discuss it with my wife however she accepted it as as something I had to do rings and al! Now that I am beginning to develop a stretch she is really enjoying massaging my hang(so do I!!), and I do believe she likes the 'banging' of the rings during sex. I wish I had known about this 'art' 40 years ago but you cannot turn the clock back.
My gay friends live far away in Scotland, if they knew they would think it was hilarious; straight friends I don't know if they have spotted my beginning to be obvious hang, or care to be honest.
I'm happy and so is my wife.

Norman
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silkpurse
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Joined: April 8th, 2012, 11:18 pm
Sexuality: Bisexual

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby silkpurse » April 30th, 2012, 12:05 am

Norman, I'd bet you and I are in the same age range. I'm just getting started with ball stretching, but like you, wish I'd discovered years ago. Is is. I've mentioned it to one gay friend, he seemed indifferent. Will be ordering my first WMC next weekend, am anxious about getting the size right. I had ordered a weighted leather one, that was nearly impossible to get on, then it let one nut slip through. Money down the drain, for now, anyway. I think most people probably think it's a bit weird, and wouldn't understand it. Nothing beats the feeling though. The little bit of time I got the wear the leather weight, it changed my energy entirely, and I felt like, "I wanna feel like this all the time."

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tundraman
Posts: 1389
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby tundraman » April 30th, 2012, 1:54 am

I'm most turned on by the male anatomy but have only had sex with women. Have no clue where that puts me. :lol:
People who have access under me kilt know. Talk of private parts just dosen't come up in my day to day conversations.
I hang with a pretty conservative bunch. I am sure some have caught a flash of steel under my kilt but have never said a word.
I find people are more understanding about foreskin restoration than ball stretching. The guys over on that forum know and I get the whole gamut of reactions. I am helping 3 guys get into WMCs there now in PMs vs open forum. :lol:

I started out to get low hangers and end up doing it because it feels good. Length gain is just gravy on the potatoes.
I found the freedom of kilts just as addictive and highly additive to the low hanger feel. They can swing free all day.
An me walking around with a silly grin on my face. :D :twisted: :lol: I haven't had p**ts on other than oil changes for two years.
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
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Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/

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Norman
Posts: 171
Joined: January 8th, 2012, 2:59 pm
Time stretching?: 2 years 3 months
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: up to 6". I've noticed them drop even more!
Stretching intensity: 15+30+15mm a lot of the time, 30mm 24/7.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 67" 154 lbs
age: 70
Location: UK

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby Norman » May 1st, 2012, 8:18 pm

Chuck,
The ancient Greeks had no doubt that the male form was most beautiful and sex with women was functional. The Romans were of the opinion that a young catamite was preferable for pleasure.
Like you, I like the male anatomy but have only had sex with women. I have several gay friends with whom I have had long friendships which I value greatly. They respect the fact that I am married so the relationships are platonic. We are all different. The difficulties occur when people try to impose norms (gender, religion). Sexual therapists are of the opinion that people move across the sexual spectrum at various times in their lives. My opinion is live and let live, enjoy your life and give pleasure to others. You certainly do that with your contributions to the forums.

Norman
I am travelling along an unknown road but I now see that I am not alone.

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tundraman
Posts: 1389
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: Gay or straight - do your friends know you ball stretch?

Postby tundraman » May 2nd, 2012, 12:27 am

Hey Norman, maybe my passion for kilts is a Greek/Roman thing too. LOL Chuck
Pants are anatomically only suited for girls. And hellishly uncomfortable since I found freedom.
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
Jarod's guide: http://www.secretleather.com/jarod.johansen
Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/


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