If your wife knows you stretch . . .

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DonnieH
Posts: 12
Joined: April 27th, 2017, 4:29 pm
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 4 years
Stretching usage: Magnetic closure metal weights; silicon stetchers occassionally
Your hang: 4.5"
Stretching intensity: Usually 3-4 times/week - for at least 8 hours per session - and always ends in hot JO session
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 5'10" - 160 lbs
age: 64
Other sexual practices: E-stim; butt plugs; nipple pumping
Location: Corona, CA

If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby DonnieH » January 29th, 2018, 12:01 am

Hello fellow stretchers,

If your wife knows you stretch (and maybe "play" while you stretch!) - how did you approach the subject with her?

I would really like to be able to stretch 24/7 when home, and while sleeping - so I am curious to know how others handled this situation.

Also - once she knows, this will help if she ever walked in when I was "swinging and jacking" . . .

Thanks in advance for any guidance you can provide!!

DonnieH

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DonnieH
Posts: 12
Joined: April 27th, 2017, 4:29 pm
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 4 years
Stretching usage: Magnetic closure metal weights; silicon stetchers occassionally
Your hang: 4.5"
Stretching intensity: Usually 3-4 times/week - for at least 8 hours per session - and always ends in hot JO session
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 5'10" - 160 lbs
age: 64
Other sexual practices: E-stim; butt plugs; nipple pumping
Location: Corona, CA

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby DonnieH » January 29th, 2018, 12:07 am

I forgot to add - due to medical problems (hers) - we have not had any sex for many, many years - so no issue of wearing them during sex because there ain't any . . . .

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Billcmpics
Posts: 18
Joined: December 22nd, 2012, 11:59 pm
Time stretching?: Seriously, 6 years
Stretching usage: 32mm ID WMC topped with 40mm steelmaster
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365, sometimes wear a ball tamer
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 72" 185lbs
age: 70+
Other sexual practices: chronic masturbator, love doing cocked tribute pics

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby Billcmpics » January 29th, 2018, 4:57 pm

There's no magic to convince her, you know her better than any of us. When I started to wear mine, she commented one day that the bulge 'looked ridiculous'. I stopped wearing for awhile, but eventually started again and have been wearing now for years. At one point, she suggested I wear my shirt untucked, which I now always do. I also wear fewer weights in some public settings, partly to avoid slip out and partly to be less obvious. I don't worry about it anymore around the house, I just wear the ball tamer, which looks like I have a soup can in my pants! I wear them to bed and she's held them occasionally and my infrequent sex is fine with a smaller weight.

Str8pumpin
Posts: 208
Joined: September 26th, 2012, 1:52 am
Time stretching?: Since 2012
Stretching usage: 20mm X30mm, 15mm WMC, 30mm WMC, and a 50 mm bullet
Your hang: about 7 1/2 inches, working towards 8
Stretching intensity: Every day, 24/ 7
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 6 ft 190 lbs
age: 52
Other sexual practices: Solo prostate stimulation, keeping my cock and balls waxed smooth....wishing I could have Tori Black as my sex slave hahaha

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby Str8pumpin » January 29th, 2018, 4:58 pm

My wife had a job that had her on the road alot for work, so I started stretching in secret..Although after awhile she did start to notice my balls were hanging much lower. I broke the ice by buying different types of cock rings, which of course she enjoyed also. Then I mentioned that they have rings that go around my balls also, wonder what that would be like? I knew I was on the path when she said "buy one and lets try it!" When I started to wear it 24 /7 she gave a few odd looks , and my response was basically I like how it looks and feels. Which is true of course. She's accepted it now and knows it drives me nuts when she blows me and pulls and plays with my weighted balls. If you have a trusting relationship, find a way to be honest with her, its always the best policy. Best of luck to you.....

rrolleston
Posts: 18
Joined: December 13th, 2017, 12:11 am
Time stretching?: 3 weeks
Stretching usage: Just started a couple weeks ago with a 7 oz weight.
Your hang: Not sure
Stretching intensity: Wearing 24/7
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: Yes
Height and weight: 6' 230 lb

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby rrolleston » January 30th, 2018, 2:06 am

I bought my first weight and she ended up opening up the mail so I had to say I wanted to make them hang lower. She at first said it looked silly but now she don't seem to care.

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Savage206
Posts: 175
Joined: September 14th, 2017, 4:35 am
Time stretching?: 5+months
Stretching usage: new personal best fellas!! Got my 45,30 and 20mm all 38ID on at the same time!!! Just over 3 lbs!! #tuglife
Your hang: 4-5 inches?
Stretching intensity: startong to stretch almost 24/7. Can wear my 30mm x 38mm ID WMC all day everyday no problem. Been wearing my 45mmx38ID a few times to work and for 24 hours at a time. My next goal is to be able to wear my 45mmx38ID as my main weight all the time.
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 5'9" 155lbs
age: 34
Other sexual practices: I also dig cock rings..

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby Savage206 » January 30th, 2018, 3:59 am

Lol I love these stories. You guys truly have loving partners. Very cool that you all have the courage to do what pleases you even though it would be an awkward conversation. Very cool. I would hope I could do the same thing if I met the right person.

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Fantasack
Posts: 273
Joined: January 1st, 2014, 7:41 pm
Time stretching?: Since June 2013
Stretching usage: Mostly WMC weights, but I also regularly use a home-designed attachment system for heavy-weighting my balls over short periods. I also use both USSR's and the Forcer on a regular basis.
Your hang: 8 inches, which is enough for me! Now holding.
Stretching intensity: 24/7, but now at maintenance intensity
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
age: 70
Other sexual practices: Anal stimulation, ball-spanking, heavy weighting
Location: BC, Canada

Re: If your wife knows you stretch . . .

Postby Fantasack » February 19th, 2018, 5:40 am

My wife has known all along and just goes along with it, although she thinks that I've gone too far and that my hang now looks "excessive"! Still, it's not really a problem for us. The one thing that she really doesn't approve of is my heavy weighting, which she doesn't understand at all. She basically turns a blind eye, saying that it's my body and I can do what I like with it, but she would prefer that I stop. She used to say the same thing about my motorcycle racing!!


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