Stretch after orgasm?

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Stretch after orgasm?

Postby newman01 » November 24th, 2017, 2:35 pm


been reading for quite a long time here, this is the first time posting a question.
I tried to find anything, but had no success. So I hope there is someone out who can answer ...

I really like wearing my weights and there's no limit in time to feel comfortable. BUT: every time after having an orgasm and being not horny anymore I feel I want to get rid of my weights and can't stand them any longer. It may take a couple of days to want them back. I can't help but I'm curious weather you sometimes feel the same.


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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby tundraman » November 24th, 2017, 5:33 pm

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby Zanegosda » November 24th, 2017, 6:50 pm

I have a similar experience when i have had an argument with one of my wives or I'm just in a generally foul mood. For me its the psychological dissonance between the way my weights make me feel good and stimulate me sexually while being in a mood that i feel should make me unaroused. I've been stretching for about 6 months no regularly and have only recently over come this by wearing less weight 24/7 regardless of my mood or arguments with my wives. After about 2 weeks the urge to take them off has completely gone away and now when I take them off to clean them and shave I feel naked and uncomfortable. I'd say stick in there and just try pushing through the psychological reaction. That's just from my experience though.

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby LoadedBalls » November 24th, 2017, 10:30 pm

Hi Newman01,

I have also felt similar to this in the past. Sometimes if I had been stretching (and particularly if I had been playing with a big stack of weights) and then masturbated to orgasm, I feet the desire to take off the weights or certainly reduce the weight I had on.

Over time, as I have become a more regular stretcher, these feelings have become less and less and I now often masturbate with weights on and have no problem in carrying on my day with the same weight on.


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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby NUTS4LOW » November 25th, 2017, 2:13 pm

I've been wearing weights for so long I can't stand for them to be off. not that i ever, unless its through airline TSA. Then back on in the bathroom. I shoot so much and far with my weights on.. why would I want them off.

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby TrumpJunior » November 25th, 2017, 2:44 pm

Tundraman is very good at explaining this...when you are aroused,your balls are desperately trying to pull up tight to your body,but when you are wearing weights,they just can't.You're probably feeling some burning and discomfort in your balls,but we just don't feel any pain when turned on.Orgasm is also much more extended with weights,and the cumshot process takes a lot longer because of the much longer distance everything has to travel during all the different things that are going on. After you cum,all that pain relief medicine that your body had been releasing wears off,and you begin to feel the discomfort from the weights not allowing your balls to gather upward to your body.So you remove the weights to relieve this,and you feel better.This gets much better over time,as your balls hang lower.I have also strained myself after cumming hard with a new taller stretcher,I guess it is the extra tension and stress it caused.The dull ache in my balls and the area above the base of the penis wear off after a day or so,but the weights stayed on.

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby Theoldguy » November 25th, 2017, 5:48 pm

I too have experienced this feeling it’s called post orgasm apathy as stretchers we often feel sexual due to the weighted feeling even if we are not aroused ,however after the act of orgasm mentally we feel there is no need for the weights I wear my weights / stretchers during sex and have found I no longer get this feeling ,
I have been stretching 3 ,1/2 years stay with it friend it will pass for you also

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby newman01 » November 25th, 2017, 6:43 pm

Hi guys,

thanks to all for answering!
I see that at least some of you are familiar with what I am dealing. -

As @Zanegosda and @Theoldguy put, it seems to be a kind of psychological imbalance which is to overcome.
It's clear, the difference between ballstretching and other sexual practices is that it's much more and not limited to that small period of time.

So I guess that I will eventually succeed and will like to keep my weights on after having sex. ;)

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby Str8pumpin » November 26th, 2017, 12:28 am

Its a mental thing to be sure, not physical. Orgasm satisfies the sexual need, so often times we feel the need to "lighten up". Sometimes if my wife isnt available, I'll weight extra heavy and jerk off. Its great, but after orgasm I go right back to my usual weight, which is typically a single 30mm.

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Re: Stretch after orgasm?

Postby Savage206 » November 26th, 2017, 5:57 am

I feel the same way. Most of the time when I get hiring and have to take care of business (so to speak..) Usually I woke up wearing weights and afterwards I have to take them off to face the work day.. If I don't masturbate for while I wear them I can wear weight for days..

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