A Bunch of perverts!

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Niccolo
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Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Niccolo » January 25th, 2014, 5:35 am

Now extremely old but not giving up on all kinds of sex related endeavours. Use it or lose it.

I recall years ago, my father looked sternly at me and my brother and said if you play with yourself you will go mad.

Pretty scary stuff so I went away and thought. I don't play with myself, I thought, I have lots of mates. Then, after a couple of days, I thought does he mean my secret vice? So I worried a bit but realised that, by now, I would have gone mad long ago. But I had not. So I went back to my nightly pleasure. Many many years later, I am still not mad and I don't know how many millions of times I have jerked off.

In fact, there is now quite a lot of medical research showing that regular and frequent jerking off will keep your prostate healthy. So far and touch wood, I have not suffered any prostatic issues. And I am resolutely keeping on keeping up. In this respect, I have no doubt that ball stretching (provided it is not done too strongly and the force is built up gradually) has great benefits in encouraging the balls to keep doing what men were designed to do - make sperm and testosterone. And doesn't it feel just great? And isn't it a rather fun addiction?

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Bioman
Posts: 35
Joined: April 10th, 2013, 2:49 pm
Time stretching?: 7 months
Stretching usage: Metal rings from Secret leather
Your hang: 6 inches with weights on
Stretching intensity: Most of the time except for travel. Skin irritation sometimes slows the progress.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 5'11" 200 pounds
age: 65
Location: USA

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Bioman » March 4th, 2014, 8:00 pm

Greetings Guys!
The greatest human drive is the drive to eat. The second is the drive to have sex and procreate. So in my view there is nothing perverted about thinking about sex, having sex, or doing different things like ball stretching that supplement the basics of sex. I know that hanging weights on my balls has increased my libido a lot. The greater the amount of weight I'm able to support, the more manly I feel. All in all, it is a great experience. I just have trouble holding down the amount of weight to allow time adjustment.
I have masturbated ever since I was probably 13. I still do. I will probably go jack off after I get through here. It feels good. I have always been really highly sexed, but I really don't know any men who aren't. I know as a young college man, that's about all we discussed in casual conversation. Sex is just important. I'm glad I found this new way of expressing my sexual pleasure, and it hurts no one.
I never thought my ball sac could stretch so much. I like how it looks all weighted and hanging down. I wonder if mine will ever stay that way without weights. It's also nice to know through this forum that a lot of men have the same feeling about all of this, and it doesn't have anything to do with being gay, bisexual, or straight. It has to do with being a man. I'm really glad to be a man, by the way. I greatly enjoy my dick and balls. Somehow, weighting down my balls just improves that package for me. I wear my weights all the time. If I bulge in my pants, what the hell.
When I first started, I was being private about it. I decided I wanted to be open with my wife, so one day I told her I had something she needed to see, and I just stripped naked right in the kitchen, balls hanging down with weights. She looked, asked a few questions about how they felt, and said if that felt good, she thought I should do it. Then she came over, kissed me, grabbed me by the balls, and pulled me to bed. Sex has improved even more since then.

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Wanahang2
Posts: 27
Joined: February 24th, 2014, 5:20 am
Time stretching?: New
Your hang: clamshell tight
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Other sexual practices: enjoy hiking au naturel.
Location: Southern Utah

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Wanahang2 » March 11th, 2014, 10:52 pm

Is it a perversion?
Are women considered perverted when they have a breast implant? What about body piercings, Anal sex, or penis enhancement? Maybe!
My first reaction is NO! ball stretching is not perverted. When I ran across the site about ball stretching my first response was “cool, but that had never ever even crossed my mind”. It was something I really wanted to try, as I wasn’t bless with even a small hang. I have indulged in penis enhancement for a while, it just seems like a logical extension now to improve the whole package.
What is perverse anyway and how is it determined? This is my personal opinion and view:
In general, society is the basic determining factor. Throughout history, that which has been consider perverse or not has run through cycles. These societal perceptions and acceptance have typically been based on the cycles of Law and Moral values (that are usually based and determined by religious dogma and interpreted views), as well as culture, tradition, and public opinion. How things change but remain or return to the same.
It’s interesting how just a few short decades back masturbation was considered to be bad or unacceptable and that sex, other than husband/wife vaginal intercourse was the proper and acceptable mainstream way to have sex. Anything but was considered abnormal and even perverse, at least here in America and many other areas of the world. Then came the subculture of free love and the offensiveness to the earlier generations. It was resisted, then tolerated (“well kids will be kids”) then accepted and finally considered just part of life and human nature. The acceptance of, activities other than vaginal intercourse, was possibly expanded by films like Deep Throat and later Hollywood’s diversion from Ozzie and Harriet – one foot on the floor and separate beds - to suggestive dress, nudity, and then crossing earlier moral moirés with the Graduate follow by more explicit sex. Porn during this era was considered extremely unacceptable by the public, even perverted, but has become common and pervasive. Opinion, reaction and laws have followed suit.
Laws seem to have cycles as well. What used to be “illegal” and punishable has become acceptable or ignored and laws changed/reversed. As human beings we depend on our logic when determining the acceptable. We therefore rationalize or justify that “if its legal then it’s right”. Besides, we all have the right – free will – agency to choose, then we select what we most desire or feel is most advantageous and beneficial to us.
Religion has widely varied views based on culture, ethnicity and traditions – when we compare East to West. Judeo-Christian Religion has had various cycles but to a much smaller degree than Law has. Much of the time Law and Religious views coincide then find themselves at odds with each other. Abraham’s other major sect’s law/religion are basically one in the same and vary little but include what seems to be a double standard. These support, promote and sanction heterosexual marital sexual activity only, anything else is sin, wicked and unacceptable. Compare this to Eastern Religions that incorporate sex in their worship and advocate exploration into areas the West considers sinful or even perverse.
So what is perversion? I guess it depends on your perspective, developed by the environment and education we get from our society, culture, traditions etc. and the subculture in which we are most familiar. This is what determines which side of the fence we are on and how close to the fence we are standing. If we are standing next to that fence, on either side, there is considerable common ground with minor personal differences.
On the left looking right, sexual activity and exploration will be similar but may be more indulgent in practices like golden showers, anal intercourse, body/face covered ejaculation, cum swallowing, fetishes, etc. As he looks even deeper and farther to the right, from the fence, divergent opinions develop and become evident as things become more puritanical, restrictive, then dogmatic and absolute.
Looking right to left, given the common ground, the person at the fence, feels open-minded and though he may not indulge in what may be considered fringe or undesirable indulgences he/she says ‘let well enough alone – it’s not hurting anybody – and it’s between consenting adult’. But still looking farther to the left things become less white or gray. Bi-sexuality may be something one may feel uneasy about but try not to make a judgment. Homosexuality or transgender may be the place the line is drawn or possibly S&M for the one right of the fence but no issue on the other side. What about incest, pedophilia, rape, snuff, or others. Where does society draw the line?
The opinions of those around us shape the perception of normal vs perverted. Examples: If we were to live in a typical neighborhood with generally agreed upon conservative/normal standards, a block party would consist of all coming together for food, games and general good time. If someone came with what other considered, skimpy or revealing clothing, they may be ignored or asked to dress more appropriately. Yet, in a different part of town the party may consist of, clothing optional or nude pool or hot tube activities culminating in group sex. It just depends on perspective, culture, and personal opinion as to what may be acceptable or not.
Actual definition of perverse: Aberrant sexual behavior – to turn away from right or good – corrupt.
Having been raised in Utah with its more puritan type environment and absolute right and wrong culture, it has taken me decades to evolve to the point where I think I understand both sides having struggled, indulged, explored (much later in life) and developed my personal (to some sinful or nonconformist) views, while still being plagued by those early dogmatic teachings. I guess I’d be considered ‘perverted’. I think my wife thinks so sometimes.
Why, because I would like a little anal play (that I don’t get). I don’t get much gratification from anal insertion but do like my butt hole tickled, teased and slightly penetrated. Also tried ‘sounding’ or inserting an object in my ‘pee hole’ urethra, it is stimulating and quite sensual but the pain is tolerable and gratifying. My wife thinks my desire to participate in a group sex encounter is “disgusting” and probably perverted. When she gives me a blowjob I wonder what my cock must feel like in her mouth and against her lips and tongue. I’d like to experience that too bioman. I don’t mind cum eating, or pee and would be willing to try golden showers. I’m definitely hetero and think a woman’s body is perfection. I have no desire to have anal performed on me and I’m only willing to explore by inserting myself into a woman’s anus. I think I’m just a little over the fence on the other side, when compared to those I live and work with.
Breast augmentation used to be considered at the very least – vain and self-indulgent. Now common, accepted even necessary. Why shouldn’t we enhance our image? Especially, if we derive some satisfaction, confidence, joy or pleasure from it. Penis enlargement was another vain and semi-taboo even perverted thing to do. Now we see ads on TV for pills to do the job and individuals proclaim the pleasure and benefits derived. Ball stretching may be the next thing to become common and actively engaged in by the general population.
As for myself, being short in stature, I just want something to be noted for and even envied about. I can’t do anything about my height so, I’ve chosen to enhance my penis and balls. In our society where we are indoctrinated that ‘bigger is better’ my cock and balls are the only thing I can do anything about. As stated earlier next to food (health and protection) sex is the next most intense and evolutionary driving force. So I indulge in the hope to develop genitalia worth notice and being desired.
So, are we engaged in something perverted? Yes! No! Maybe or is it just a fetish? Does it matter or do we just march to the beat of a different drummer? Will our currently questionable practice become mainstream, like breast augmentation, penis enlargement, anal sex, bi and homosexuality and others? We’ll see

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Phaco
Posts: 105
Joined: March 8th, 2014, 6:43 am
Time stretching?: Since 03-03-2014
Stretching usage: Stretching now with WMC High 20mm ID 40 mm and a WMC 15mm ID also 40mm day and night.
Stretching intensity: Try 24/7/365. But this is not always possible.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 1.87 -80 kg
age: 56
Other sexual practices: Always wear cock ring. Also steel
Like to be naked.
Location: Netherlands

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Phaco » March 22nd, 2014, 10:04 am

Since two weeks i am stretching my balls. But i has to do this long time before because i was always thinking of it. When we are on the nudist beach and it is warm my balls were hanging. When we went for a walk i felt my balls between my legs. And that was such a good feeling !! It is a feeling that every guy must like. I thought...i have to keep that feeling !! When i saw guys at the beach with a large hang i was realy jealous. I always thought ballstretching was a little pervert. Therefore i never did it. Two years ago i bought my first cockring. I felt myself guilty that i bought it...but the feeling was so nice!! My wife didn't understand me why i was wearing that ring. I told here it gave me a wonderfull feeling. So is now the fact with ballstretching. It gives me a feeling like i had on the beach. Swinging my balls between my legs gives me the feeling that my boys are there :!: and i am proud of them !! Having sex with a good hang gives my wife also a good feeling !! So no hard feelings. My feelings of pervert are totally gone. Ballstretching is a way of life. And know sure every guy begins with it, can never stop again. I am also glad i found this forum. It made me a step closer to stretching. Thanks you all.

With kind regards.
Phaco
Stretching my balls ?.....Why not !!!

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Fantasack
Posts: 337
Joined: January 1st, 2014, 7:41 pm
Time stretching?: Since June 2013
Stretching usage: Mostly WMC weights, but I also regularly use a home-designed attachment system for heavy-weighting my balls over short periods. I also use both USSR's and the Forcer on a regular basis.
Your hang: 9 inches, which is enough for me! Now holding.
Stretching intensity: 24/7, but now at maintenance intensity
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
age: 70
Other sexual practices: Anal stimulation, ball-spanking, heavy weighting
Location: BC, Canada

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Fantasack » March 27th, 2014, 9:17 pm

I can identify very closely with the posts from bobbyballsack and Wanahang2 - ever since my long-ago early teenage years when I first started masturbating, I've been into doing whatever felt good using my own genitalia whenever the opportunity offered. I'm sure that some of the stuff that I did way back when was illegal at the time! I have little doubt that I would have been considered a potentially dangerous pervert back then, half a century ago .........

But that was then - this is now! I suppose that the overriding motivation for my life-long sexual explorations has been plain old curiosity. Example - I learned very early on about anal penetration (or, as the Church put it, the mortal sin of sodomy), and my immediate reaction was - how does that feel? No sooner thought than tried ........although I've never experienced it "for real', having been restricted to the dildo/vibrator approach. Women have told me that this doesn't come close to the real thing, a view which I've always had a strong closet desire to test despite my hererosexual orientation in most respects.

After I began having sex with women (I am strongly heterosexual in terms of my sexual orientation), I soon found out that I loved being sucked off. That led me to wonder what semen tasted like for my partner - again, only one way to find out! Something that has always guided me is - don't expect someone else to do something for you that you wouldnt do yourself.

I'm interested to see that both of the posters referred to at the outset claim that they'd like to experience sucking off a male penis. I must confess that I have long had a closet desire to try that too, despite the fact that it's women to whom I'm most strongly attracted. Again, if you expect someone else to do it for you ....... I'd just like the expecrience, that's all. Maybe some day, if the opportunity ever arises, as it were .........

In summary, if being a heterosexual male with closet bisexual tendencies makes nme a pervert, then I suppose I am. But you know what? I don't feel any guilt about this whatsoever! I'll continue to do whatever feels good for the rest of my life, not caring much what others might think if they knew ..........

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osoivan
Posts: 74
Joined: February 19th, 2014, 3:57 am
Sexuality: Gay
Time stretching?: Just starting
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
age: 36
Location: San Juan, Puerto Rico

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby osoivan » March 28th, 2014, 1:04 am

Perversion... I think its a matter of opinion... for me a pervert is someone who is always talking about sex and always looking at others in a sexual way...
Then theres the ones that like minors...
Other than that... at least for me, everything is ok... as long its between consenting adults...

About you guys wanting some anal play, its simple, your anus has many nerve connection plus the prostate its also in the area... get a prostate stimulator...
Being gay is not about having sex with some one, its about liking that person whole, not just his,her genitals...
You might be bi and just not realize it yet...
I had an experience many years ago. A co-worker told me He wanted to have sex with me... but I thought he was kidding... but a few weeks after that he told me again... I asked if he was serious... he told me he has had that desire for a long time, he wanted to experiment... So who am I to not help a friend in need?
He ejaculated wile I was penetrating him... He liked it... and he wasn't gay... was he?

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Fantasack
Posts: 337
Joined: January 1st, 2014, 7:41 pm
Time stretching?: Since June 2013
Stretching usage: Mostly WMC weights, but I also regularly use a home-designed attachment system for heavy-weighting my balls over short periods. I also use both USSR's and the Forcer on a regular basis.
Your hang: 9 inches, which is enough for me! Now holding.
Stretching intensity: 24/7, but now at maintenance intensity
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
age: 70
Other sexual practices: Anal stimulation, ball-spanking, heavy weighting
Location: BC, Canada

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Fantasack » March 28th, 2014, 3:31 am

Who knows whether or not he was gay? Doesn't really matter, does it? Being honest, I suspect that if a male friend about whom I genuinely cared sought my co-operation in meeting a sincerely-felt need like that, I would respomd as you did. As I said, there are non-hetero acts that I would like to experience myself, so I can identify ...............Does that make me bi?? Possibly, but I don't plan to lose a lot of sleep over that question! My relationship with my wife is just fine!!

I agree completely that the definition of perversion is entirely subjective. One man's pervert is another man's free spirit. For me too, anything goes as long as it involves either oneself going solo or interactions with another consenting adult.

And by the way, I do have several prostate stimulators .............

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osoivan
Posts: 74
Joined: February 19th, 2014, 3:57 am
Sexuality: Gay
Time stretching?: Just starting
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
age: 36
Location: San Juan, Puerto Rico

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby osoivan » March 28th, 2014, 4:05 am

I have a friend... he is gay but married to a woman for over 20 years... she is the love of his life but he likes guys and having sex with them...
I guess everyone has their own twist and take on sexuality and all related stuff

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rohumpy
Posts: 45
Joined: August 20th, 2012, 5:15 pm
Sexuality: Gay

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby rohumpy » April 7th, 2014, 12:47 pm

I have now been stretching continuously 24/7 since Dec 2012. My stretch is really long about 18 cm. I think I would feel undressed without the weights. And yes I am a perv and proud of it!!

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weighty
Posts: 88
Joined: July 24th, 2013, 10:11 pm
Sexuality: Gay
Time stretching?: years
Stretching usage: I used to use fishing weights 8 oz ones two or four at a time, and weighted leather, still use the weighted leather. I now have 30x28mm (+ 2mm washer) 435 gms, 28mm was much to small although i did have fun finding out. I also have the large ring for extra ballast these three are on all the time, erxcept for a wash then back on, am not dressed without my weights.
Your hang: differs, according to weather
Stretching intensity: all day every day,
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 5'11'' 12 stn
age: 64
Location: london W5

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby weighty » April 9th, 2014, 11:34 am

having just had a read of some of the recent posts, while sitting here, sun shining, nice and warm big heavy bulge in my pants, I had to stand and give it a shake, my metal and heavy leather strap mix is so comfortable, the skin is so relaxed i cant believe just how "RIGHT" for me this feels. While out and walking, shopping , at the pub, I know others see and watch how I sit, that's ok but the weights are for ME, and I do believe the weights keep the nuts working, most of the guys i know of my age are on the "HARD ON" pills of various names, I dont! I do want some more weight, maybe a heavy 32ID (better than sex with a stranger)!

weighty


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