A Bunch of perverts!

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DaveSmith
Posts: 97
Joined: January 7th, 2012, 4:35 pm
Time stretching?: 20 years app
Stretching usage: WMC ® weights
Your hang: 184mm 7.5"
Stretching intensity: Varies enormously from intense stretching to periods of rest
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 6ft - 10.6 stones
Other sexual practices: I enjoy bondage play and extended 'edging' while masturbating
Location: UK
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A Bunch of perverts!

Postby DaveSmith » May 30th, 2012, 7:27 am

I'm looking for a lively debate here - Why do we stretch our balls? Why do YOU stretch your balls? If you're quite new to this, your views are as much sought after as the old salts.

Are you just some sad pervert? Are you alternatively highly sexed and not getting satisfaction elsewhere? Are you turned on by the sensations available by providing stimulation to to your balls and are informed enough to realise that your balls are a relatively unmined source of pleasure? Perhaps you simply feel physical discomfort by balls that are too tight to your body and want them to hang lower? Do you think low hanging balls are sexier looking than high tight ones and want your balls to look different? There are many guys who don't stretch. Some becasue they dislike the idea. Some simply because it has never occurred to them and they may never know of the pleasures of ball stretching. Are ball stretchers overly self indulgent? I often make jokes about an addiction to ball stretching, but there is a strong element of truth in this and I want to do it repeatedly even though it is often inconvenient, and even when it is problematic. Furthermore I usually feel the need for more sensation as I acclimatise to the feelings of the weights I'm on at the time (the junkie needing the fix and moving from softer to harder drugs!). I am drawn to it for many reasons, but there will be a whole raft of other reasons out there - I'd love to hear them.

What is it that turned you to ball stretching? How do you consider your personality? How do you consider your attraction to ball stretching? Are you joyful that you have found it? Are you guilty about having a perverted desire? Many guys have to (very sadly) hide their ball stretching activity from wives/partners/lovers/friends. Do you do it in secret? Do you merely do it privately?

Has ball stretching merely added a new category to your sexual activity and in its absence would you be undertaking some other sexual stimulation anyway? Do you resent the need to ball stretch? Or, if it is not a need (in the sense of a craving) and you are undertaking it, not for pleasure but for the result that you seek do you grudge the effort involved?

I got started years ago seeing photographs on the internet of guys with weights on their balls and instantly knew I wanted to try that. It's not a gay or a straight thing or a bi thing, it covers all sexualities. There are hundreds, nay thousands of us ball stretchers out there, but milllions of non ball stretchers - What makes a guy a ball stretcher? How did you get started and more importantly - why?
Dave Smith
"Ball stretching is like life - the journey is more important than the destination"

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Norman
Posts: 171
Joined: January 8th, 2012, 2:59 pm
Time stretching?: 2 years 3 months
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: up to 6". I've noticed them drop even more!
Stretching intensity: 15+30+15mm a lot of the time, 30mm 24/7.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: No
Height and weight: 67" 154 lbs
age: 70
Location: UK

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Norman » May 30th, 2012, 4:35 pm

I got into active ball stretching five months ago. To be honest I have always been a balls and cock man, somewhat fascinated by their different shapes and sizes and how they relate to the person they belong to.
I decided to try cock rings starting with the flexible ones which I found unsatisfactory and doing research on the internet discovered high quality steel doughnuts. Experimenting with them, you can't leave them in place over your cock and balls too long or strangulation takes place, I found out that they would 'rest' on my ballsack quite happily and I liked the weight and sensations. I discovered that ball stretching weights were also supplied by some of the companies so further research brought up Jarod's guide which explained how it was done and what to expect - I was hooked! I bought a cheap SS split ring to experiment which I enjoyed using despite the initial discomfort. Co-oincidently at that time Dave relaunched the SL forum and I met several people on the forum who were able to help me get started.
I am quite a highly sexed person who enjoys sex and things sexual, I don't think that I am perverted. My wife has accepted my new interest, we have not discussed it but then she is Scottish(!) and the presbyterian upbringing does not encourage free discussion but she would tell me if she disapproved! I haven't discussed it with anyone else as I am not interested in what they would think about me or my strange fixation!
Yes, it can be inconvenient, it would be handy if the things had a clip system rather than fiddly allen bolts; I find them distracting during sex and prefer just 2 x 15mm ideally, the heavier 30mm so I have to have allen keys around.
From a personality point of view I have always been rather unconventional, with a love of the outrageous. I like that stretching is carried on out of view(my secret), I want a larger ballsack and am willing to work at it. It gives me pleasure and I enjoy the interaction with other interesting men on this site and Rantallion and it gives me the chance to see other men's efforts.
One thing I am enjoying is walking along and feeling that slow swing; and I do enjoy the quizzical sidelong look you get from other men when they too notice things are swinging! I don't care!!
Norman
I am travelling along an unknown road but I now see that I am not alone.

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tundraman
Posts: 1365
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby tundraman » May 30th, 2012, 7:58 pm

OH my, fuzzy memory. Have always been on the lookout for safe things to do with my equipment for amusement. Think I have or do own everything out there - not just cock and balls. Although not into S & M, I was into full leather etc. and still have nice leather pants and shorts from Mr. S Leather (expensive) that will never be worn again - kilts for life here- :lol: Some are leather. They also sold some ball weights - OK I'll try one - was sold then and there. Of course rust became an issue with continuous use of this weight. And the search/research was on. Luckily via Google Image - I ran across Dave wearing his 4-15mms - those look neat?- Onto the SL site - found out about surgical stainless and rounded edges - found Jarods Guide - ordered A couple WMCs - hooked for life -:lol: I call it hitting the trifecta at the race track. I found WMCs, kilts and Jarods guide all within the same month. Two of them (mainly the kilts - about $10,000 - so far :lol:) has kept me interested and entertained and broke since. Been swinging, spinning and waggling ( what the pleats do walking - real chick and guy magnet ) ever since - with my trademark shit eating grin all over my face. You can spent your time and money chasing tail or get kilted and let the tail chase you. Which is cheaper and easyier?
At this point I really don't care of I gain any more hang ( I'll take it of course!) I am just enjoying the sensations and helping others in our hobby / addiction to do it safely and effectively.

Dave it's only perversion if you are doing it right! -- So Yes we are :lol:
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I couldnt find the one I wanted that said, " It's only perverted if you are doing it right" :lol:
The feather vs. whole chicken one is old hat.
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
Jarod's guide: http://www.secretleather.com/jarod.johansen
Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/

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tchmango
Posts: 47
Joined: May 17th, 2012, 1:36 am

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby tchmango » May 30th, 2012, 8:59 pm

I am new to this practice but find it interesting in its own right. Definetely has some special requirements if you intend to participate fully. I was following a PE routine when I stumbled onto the Secret Leather site and decided my scrotum needed some love too! As it seems there is some conflict between the two routines I have chosen the WMC and ball stretching over the PE. My reasons are that medication has reduced the size of my testicles considerably and ball stretcing may return some swing down below. Additionally I have started on an HCG treatment to re-start my testicles and hopefully see them expand back to there original size. Just as I like having some swinging meat between my legs I like the feel of the two WMC weights hanging and doing there thing. I am only two weeks into this but feel that I have already made a commitment to see it to some logical end. Whatever that end may be I do not know. I already have had to go from wearing my normal Wranglers to loose shorts. Fortunately I am only having to "clothe up" for busienss meetings a couple of times a week. My original WMC were a bit big and had a tendency to slide off. Dave quickly shipped me another 15mm WMC in a smaller diameteter and things are now perfect I think. I am wearing two WMC now and there are no problems.

My girlfriend does not understand why I am doing this but is supportive and has not given me any issues. I like the equipment that Secret Leather has vended to me. I like the idea of being able to do someting about what I perceive as a problem and I enjoy the process of doing it. I appreciate the others on the forum helping the new guys and Dave and Secret Leather offer genuine help and great products.

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tundraman
Posts: 1365
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby tundraman » May 30th, 2012, 9:36 pm

TCH - had to look up hCG. Lots of side effects hope the doctor is montioring you closely. Best guy, Chuck
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
Jarod's guide: http://www.secretleather.com/jarod.johansen
Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/

bobbyballsack
Posts: 185
Joined: January 9th, 2012, 7:10 pm
Time stretching?: 7 Years
Your hang: right at 4 inches
Stretching intensity: From time to time. Wear weights during sex always.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: Yes
Height and weight: 6 foot 1 270 lbs
age: 46
Other sexual practices: Ass play, ureathra play
Location: Ponchatoula, Louisiana USA
Contact:

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby bobbyballsack » May 30th, 2012, 10:37 pm

Well since we are all being honest....lol. I think that I was actually born a pervert. I can not remember any point in my life where I thought girls had "cooties" and wanted to stay away from them. I was always attracted to girls VERY early like 2nd 3rd grade early. I knew there was something about them but of course at the time I didnt know what it was. I found myself catching feels if I played games with them like freeze tag etc.
I also very early before I even started puberty that playing with my dick was pleasurable. Ive heard about this with young girls..it has some medical name that I cant remember...lol. I was masturbating before I knew thats what I was doing. I started so early I had absolutely no signs of pubic hair and now I know I was having an orgasm but nothing ever came out so my body wasnt even makin the jizz yet.
I stumbled onto my preferred method at the time by accident. We had a shoer head that detached and would hand way down into the tub. Id fill the tub with the shower head detached and let it fill the tub. Once it was at a certain level I realized that putting the shower head under the water and aimong the jet at the crown of my cock was heaven. I did this every night for what seemed like forever. I had tons of orgasms before anything started to shoot out. Also at this time I started experimenting analy although I dont remember how it started. I remember that I started with the trusty anal thermometer. I liked the way it kind of tickled by sphincter.
Once puberty started there were days I was jerking off up to 5 times a day. We lived in a very wooded area with not alot of people around and alot of times Id pull out some porn mags I had come across and go into the wood to my treehouse or wherever and get busy. It was very secluded so I use to actually disrobe and walk the woods naked. It was also at this time I was inserting larger and larger things into my ass.
All of this was going on or was done prior to me being 14 or 15. I loved my masturbation time and still do.
I agree with the drug addict looking for the higher high. You get use to something and it doesnt excite you as much as it did before so you look for that higher high. My starting with an anal thermometer has grown to my wife fucking me with a strapon dildo now. Her putting ponytail holders on my balls and or pulling on them very hard while sucking them had graduated into me wearing the weights.
I consider myself now bicurious with exceptions. I love the look of a hairless rock hard cock and balls. Im curious about sucking one and of course having it in me since the wife says no dildo comes close to the real thing, so if I like a dildo I will probably love the real deal. The problem is that I only find the package sexy but not guys. This has turned me towards alot of shemale porn. Some of them are very sexy and look better than some actual girls. There are alot of good looking ones out there with the added bonus of a cock. Im pretty sure this is the route I will eventually take hiring a shemale escort so I can satisfy that fantasy. I am into just about everything except pain. I look at my sexual adventures and ask myself whats next..is there something else to try. It seems the only last thing is the bondage and pain but Im just not into the pain. I have no specific kink like feet or panty hose etc, so like I say....whats next :twisted:
--> 1mm seems insignificant until you try to stretch a piercing or your urethra <--

http://www.pornhub.com/users/bobby_ballsack

Started stretching 12/14/2009

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tundraman
Posts: 1365
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby tundraman » June 1st, 2012, 3:45 pm

Perversion is almost always doing something outside the normal or accepted. Truth be known we are not outside the normal. And like the rest of the normals we keep a lot of what we do private. No one gets hurt, I have no problem with this. I do have a problem with the people who try to ordain or legislate "normal". They are petty dictators shoving their normal down our throats.
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
Jarod's guide: http://www.secretleather.com/jarod.johansen
Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/

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Gerald Richards
Posts: 16
Joined: January 21st, 2012, 1:43 pm
Location: United States

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby Gerald Richards » June 1st, 2012, 8:53 pm

I can't say that ball stretching is perverted. I look at it as an art. I have always been interested in enlargement techniques. They have been around as long as man found out he had one and the other guy's was bigger!
I use to use a parachute, leather stretchers and stainless steel weights (not as nice as WMC's), but I out grew them. I have grown wider and in girth throughout the years.
I was looking for new weights (that would fit me) when I came across Secretleather.
I am glad I found Dave and his company and enjoy the forum very much. It is nice to read and share about things we have in common. I do not have anyone that I share my interest with.
Perverted. No. Just different.
Passions: pumping, stretching and sounding.

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tundraman
Posts: 1365
Joined: April 25th, 2012, 11:11 am
Sexuality: Bisexual
Time stretching?: 3 + years
Stretching usage: WMCs
Your hang: free 6.5 inch
Stretching intensity: 24/7/365 until I reached my goal.
Now I only stretch when I feel like it.
Height and weight: 70 inch, 155 pounds
Location: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby tundraman » June 5th, 2012, 12:51 am

Answer for whether it's tickle with the feather or the whole chicken under the kilt:
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It's not me, but I have a Heratage of Ireland tartan kilt almost identical - without the chicken - :lol:
Or the underwear :cry: if there is any underwear, it's a skirt, not a kilt.
Gett'er Down, Chuck
Index of info posts - viewtopic.php?f=4&t=931
Jarod's guide: http://www.secretleather.com/jarod.johansen
Dave's Secretleather site for real WMC's: http://www.secretleather.com/

bobbyballsack
Posts: 185
Joined: January 9th, 2012, 7:10 pm
Time stretching?: 7 Years
Your hang: right at 4 inches
Stretching intensity: From time to time. Wear weights during sex always.
Your relationship status: Married (officially or otherwise)
Are you pierced?: Yes
Height and weight: 6 foot 1 270 lbs
age: 46
Other sexual practices: Ass play, ureathra play
Location: Ponchatoula, Louisiana USA
Contact:

Re: A Bunch of perverts!

Postby bobbyballsack » June 5th, 2012, 12:58 am

lol
--> 1mm seems insignificant until you try to stretch a piercing or your urethra <--

http://www.pornhub.com/users/bobby_ballsack

Started stretching 12/14/2009


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